3.30.2009

separation anxiety

Our bishopric rocks. We got to Church yesterday morning and there was much talk about Grant's first day of nursery. And aside from my little post last week, I had not said a word to any one about Grant's eligibility. Though there is not a leader called yet, the bishopric and the primary presidency got it covered. After Sacrament meeting Cori dropped Grant off in the nursery room and the crying began.

He cried all through the second hour and nearly all the way through the third. Cori had a really hard time staying away. It is a tough call to make- go in and risk being very unhelpful while trying to help, or subject a poor volunteer to your sobbing child for two hours in hopes that the kid will relax after a little while. And it is not fun listening to your baby cry. Yes. We could hear him nearly everywhere in the church building.

This was not an issue at all with Gracie. I was more of a mess that day. When I dropped her off on her first day of nursery, she gave me a kiss, I waved bye-bye and she ran off to play. No problems. She was used to flying solo. Nursery wasn't her first experience being without her family.

Grant is just fine when we leave the kids with baby sitters. But yesterday was the first time he's ever been without Gracie. Poor guy. 

These are pictures that Cori took on Saturday night. The kids took in some popcorn and March madness with us before bed. Every time Grant asked for something to drink, Grace lovingly doted on him. They are becoming good friends and it makes me so happy. Grace complains when Grant has to go down for a nap. Grant wants to be everywhere she is. 



6 comments:

Donna said...

Although it is very hard to leave them, I am so thankful that your members are attentive to your needs. It sure helps you feel at home.

miss you!

Cameron/Melissa said...

yeah for nursery! I hope that you get to enjoy it by your little guy deciding to enjoy nursery. It took my second until she was two to like nursery. She missed her sister too.

Anonymous said...

They are so adorable!!! Gracie is such a great big sister.

Sorry nursery was so hard on little Grant. :(

Camille said...

I must say that this post made me cry. That pic of Gracie giving your little boyfriend drinks and popcorn, was just toooo much.

I just love love love you!

and I'm sooooooo glad they came to your rescue at church. Don't you love it when your child provides the background music for all 3 hours of church???

Heidi said...

Oh my heavens, that is so cute! I love how much they love each other. And how much she loves to dote and he loves the doting!

And I hadn't ever thought about sibling separation anxiety... That definitely complicates things a little more. I wonder if it would help if there were other kids in the nursery? Maybe if he wasn't all alone with an adult he doesn't know, he might be okay?

Darcy said...

That is sure tough to know your baby is crying in nursery. I've been the nursery leader both times my kids have "Entered" and that made it so much easier on both of us (me especially). Now when I get released (if I ever do) I'm happy to let him go on his own. Super cute pictures. Love how Grace mommies Grant.