10.31.2015

Halloween and the sea freight


We were told not to expect too much for Halloween. It is a very American holiday. We were excited to see what would come of it here. The weekend before the big day, we ate at our favorite Italian restaurant and they had a special menu that really went for the ghoulish gusto. And we knew that there would be trick-or-treating in Palm Meadows. But we didn't know how many people would actually be participating. As the date approached, we were anxiously working out the details of the delivery of our sea freight. We had bid farewell to most of our worldly possessions in the middle of August. And now, at the end of October, we were beyond excited to be reunited. The children were especially so as all our Halloween boxes were in the sea freight and they had a mufti day (non-uniform) where they would be able to wear costumes. 




Cori snapped this photo at the shipping yard. There is a one week process to get the container off the boat and then inspected by customs. Despite our best efforts to hurry things along, the delivery of our goods began the afternoon of the kid's mufti day. So we had to get creative with what clothes and supplies we could find. Grace made a cute strawberry. Grant pulled off a gangly neon skeleton. And Eden wanted to be Elsa (with a braid and straight hair). So we repurposed the Brave dress we had in the toy bin and did what we could with her perfectly hued hair.






We had some time once the big kids were off to school to prepare for the rest of the day. All of the rental furniture was scheduled to be dismantled and removed starting around noon, and the delivery would begin around 3. Selvi and I worked around the house stripping beds and cleaning out desks and drawers. I also had a couple of bags to prepare as we were going to be staying at the hotel at the clubhouse for two or three nights while the house got settled.

The rental furniture guys showed up over an hour late -- after I had made a dozen phone calls -- and the delivery showed up a half an hour early. So the rental furniture was moved to the driveway for dismantling. Once we had signed all the paperwork for that and the house was cleared, we were finally able to give the okay to start unloading the trucks. Jeffery was wandering in and out of the house all afternoon while I was signing papers and directing traffic. The moving guys were so so good with him. They let him watch Tom & Jerry on their phones, they made sure he didn't go into the street, they chased him down the sidewalk, and they kept him to the side when big loads were on the move. We stood with the manager at the front door and as each package came through we crossed it off on the master list and told them where to put it. We did this over the course of a couple days which were followed by a day for assembly and waste removal. We had bought a bunk bed in the States for the boys' room which was still completely unassembled and in its original boxes. They hired someone to spend a day assembling it for us. Cori and I each cried a tear of joy!




Four truck load's worth of paper-wrapped goods makes for A LOT of paper. At one point, I found the kids literally diving into a pile of paper off the back porch while the moving guys cheered them on. I put a hasty kabosh on this little activity, but Eden begged for one more jump. I reluctantly agreed and she proceeded to do a front flip from the patio chair. She and Jeffery do not get their fearlessness from me. I totally blame Cori!




Overall, our stuff made it through in good shape. We had an old cabinet that got crushed and needed to be thrown out. There were a few broken glass things. And when one of our TVs was uncrated, they "found" large scratches down the screen. I am 90% certain that the movers raked it with their box cutters. They were insistent that there was an offending staple in the crate that caused the damage. Fortunately, we get reimbursed for these kinds of things and it wasn't a big deal. 


Unfortunately, our Halloween boxes (and preplanned costumes) were nowhere to be found. I explained before how we had to divide our things into several groups for the move here. We had debated between putting the Halloween stuff into the air shipment pile and putting in into the sea freight. We knew we'd be cutting it close on the calendar for Halloween but I thought we had ultimately decided to put it into the sea freight (space was tight on the air shipment). It also doesn't help that we put half the Halloween stuff into storage. After several years of trunk-or-treats we have more than a few boxes of Halloween fun. I'm thinking (hoping) that there was a mix up in the garage that packing day and that all the Halloween stuff is waiting happily together in storage. I guess we'll find out in a couple of years! (And I'll be trying to stock up on Halloween stuff while we are state-side this summer!)

The kids were good sports. They dug around in the dress up box and got ready for trick-or-treating. Our dear friends here, the Jacksons, invited us over for a chili dinner before hitting the neighborhood. Dinner was delish and the rest of the night was surprisingly festive. Over 1/3 of the houses we wandered through had some decoration up and were participating that night. The streets were alive with families and friends.













Eden fell in the street and wailed loudly enough to draw a good crowd. Cori elbowed his way though to take this photo... She was totally fine, by the way.

10.27.2015

Dussehra Festival: Cubbon Park



The final day of the kids' break, we trekked out to Cubbon Park. It was the last thing on our list of things to see in Bangalore. Bangalore isn't exactly known for its tourist attractions... Cubbon Park is downtown- there is an entry fee (20 rupees - about 13 cents) and there are some attractions inside that need to be paid for separately as well. We got there a little before opening and wandered through the aquarium next door. Admission fee there was 5 rupees. It was two floors of fish tanks. But the kids were happy.






Our first stop inside the park was to ride the train which makes a giant loop around the whole property. We can always count on Grant to capture the excitement of any occasion with his face...





A chunk of the park is closed and in need of repair. There used to be paddle boats and canoes and twice as many play grounds. It is too bad, really. Some sites seen along the way:




There is a large castle fort that everyone ran around on for a while. I went to take a picture of Jeffery and turned around to find the G's and Eden getting sucked into another family photo. What do people even do with these pictures of other people's kids and families? I'd really like to know.




We didn't do any of the carnival rides. Carnival rides are terrifying enough (from a safety stand point) in the U.S.. We were not tempted to test fate in Bangalore. So the kiddos ran around the large playground. We tried to stay within arms reach of Eden and Jeffery to ward off other well-meaning photographers.



Before heading home, we dove into some local fare for lunch. Cokes, fried veg noodles, onion dosa, and ice cream cones for about $8 total.



10.26.2015

Dussehra Festival: Bangalore Palace




Cori took some time off the next day too. Having enjoyed so much family togetherness the day before, he and I availed ourselves of our household helper, Selvi. We left all the children at home with her while we went to see the Bangalore Palace.

The Bangalore Palace was built in the time of maharajahs. It took over 80 years to complete (1860's through 1940's) and midway through construction it was purchased by the royal family of Mysore (A city about 3 hours drive from Bangalore). To this day, Bangalore Palace is owned by this royal family, and there is great dispute about this and the palace of Mysore. The government runs all the tours etc. and would like complete control of the facilities. The royals aren't ready to give it up though they are in financial difficulty. The disrepair and lack of upkeep was very evident. Also evident was the lavish ways the Maharajahs lived.

Our tour guide kept claiming that John Nash (architect of the Buckingham Palace) was the architect of the Banglore Palace. Everything I can find suggests that the architecture found in the Bangalore Palace was purposefully designed to resemble Nash's style. But that's all. The main royal family recognized in India today is the Mysore crew. Mysore Palace is the main royal seat of India. But the queen and her children still keep residence at Bangalore Palace and visit there often. We missed them by a week. There is a huge ceremony held at Mysore Palace for Dessurha that the royals were in the midst of completing.



Teakwood carving and inlays.




Gold leafing across the entire ceiling.






The palace is filled with fine things from other countries. Brightly colored blown glass chandeliers from Glasgow. Tile from Morocco and Spain. Stained glass from all around Europe. Cavernous rooms lined with Italian marble.



The "Indian Mona Lisa"


Our tour guide nearly drove us bonkers. He was so happy and anxious to put us in the closest proximity with antiquity and for us to take many, many pictures. There had been a table and a velvet rope in front of the Indian Mona Lisa which he quickly moved out of the way so we could get up close and personal.


"Madam. Here is the throne chair of the maharani {queen} where she was made to sit for hours. *removes protective barriers* Come, come, sit! Now Sir, take the picture."


"Now, both of you. I will take the picture"


"This is a foot stool made from the elephant you saw hanging in the entry. Very old. Very priceless. Here, Madam. You sit on it. And Sir, stand behind. I will take the picture."


"Now Sir, you sit on it and Madam stands behind."


"Now, hold it. No, not like that. Like this. *positions our hands* Good. Now I take the picture."

"Madam, go be the maharani in her bath"


"Now, sir. This is where the king himself would sit to take the sunshine" You can see how Cori was feeling about these photo ops at this point...


"And here is the tile bench where he would take his massage. Come, madam. Give sir a massage."


"Now, make him to lie properly for the massage..." Oh what the other tourists there might have been thinking!




The last male heir of the Mysore line passed away just over a year ago. This has also brought some difficulty to the Royal line. This was his office.



Principal income for the site comes from massive events (marriages mostly) held in the grounds behind the palace. Our tour guide took us back to see the facilities. It is an enormous covered platform. There are fans and lights suspended here and there, and the platform is tiered. It is easily a football field in size. The tour guide said that the facility rents out for a cool 50K USD, and that they can handle upwards of 80,000 guests. Good. Grief. The ceiling of the shelter is draped in the gold and silver fabric. I can't even describe the amount of fabric this would take.



Our tour concluded where it began in the main courtyard. We noticed some outbuildings around the side of the palace and inquired if we could see them as well. The tour guide told us that those structures were just the old green house, kitchens and servants quarters. He told us we could go explore if we wanted but that there was nothing to see. Of course, we went exploring.



The green house was filled with old carriages. 



Walking though the kitchens and servants' quarters was one of most interesting parts of our visit. Courtyard opened into subsequent courtyard. They stretched as far as the palace is long. We could make out where vats had been for laundry as well as where the living quarters had been. So incredible to imagine what life was like for those people inside and outside of the palace.






Before leaving, we wandered the front garden a bit. It is not very large and is trying very hard to be a proper European garden.





As we walked out to the car we caught site of the royal horses being herded back to the stables.