11.24.2008

Where the heck have I been?

I haven't managed much time for blogging these last couple of weeks. I been busy, but not especially more than usual. I think part of my problem is that every time I turn on the computer, I get busy browsing holiday recipes and working on Christmas presents (almost done!). And then before I know it, my computer time is up.

For the record, here is a brief glimpse of what I have been busy doing:
  • cleaning our house 4 times a day
  • meeting with realtors
  • reading the 20 emails a day that I get from Cori, realtors here and our realtor in IL
  • snow-blowing our driveway every time I need to leave the house or every time we are expecting company- it has snowed almost every day for the last week and a half
  • visiting teaching- which I love
  • feeding people- which I love
  • practicing and performing musical numbers- which I love
  • holiday planning and shopping
  • buying a large wall clock (that doesn't work properly) from an estate sale
  • playing with my babies- which I love
  • crying in my pillow because of a hard day where nothing seemed to go right- Cori made it all better though
  • Relief Society lessons and visits- which I love
  • making Christmas gifts
  • taking pictures of these two



For the most part, I've been busy with really fun stuff. Just too busy to blog. Maybe if I were more like some people who have the holiday stuff all planned and organized before Halloween (Natalie? Shannon? I'm talking about you!) I could have more me time. Maybe next year.

11.17.2008

confessions

Friday night Cori and I were supposed to have a date. I had a babysitter lined up. I was going to make reservations for us to eat at a fancy restaurant downtown. After two weeks of being quarantined with my sick babies and all their...bodily stuff I was pretty anxious to put on cute clothes and get out of the house. Gracie's stomach bug wasn't on the same schedule. Plans were quickly unmade. I was so disappointed. But my wise and manly man assured me that he had things under control and told me to go and do something. Anything. So Friday and Saturday night I put on cute clothes and spent some time solo. I did some Christmas shopping. I used gift cards that have been sitting in my purse since my birthday. I walked through some other stores, just because I wanted to. And, I listened to Christmas music. I usually make myself wait until after Thanksgiving. But my life felt so indulgent this weekend that I just gave in.



I feel like I have nothing to do. Of course, this is not true. There are always plenty of things that should be done. But this morning, I woke and got ready for the day a little earlier than usual. After the kids were dressed and we were all breakfasted, I took a look at the list of house stuff I had been working through. One thing left. Grant's closet. Which means going through the tubs of baby boy stuff I have stored in there. And I did that just a little while ago. So then I thought I should start some laundry. But I had finished all the laundry on Saturday. All the bathrooms are clean. All the things I could think of to do had recently been done. This is so not my normal life. But then I started thinking about Christmas. How I hadn't even really made a list for the holiday yet (though I have done a lot of shopping already). I thought of my ideas for our mailer, handmade gifts for the kids, things for family... Then I started feeling a pang of pressure to get busy. This feels more like my normal life. I better get back to our white board and make a new list.

11.13.2008

taking shape

Dear reader, this is one of those 'getting written out for posterity' kind of posts. F.Y.I.

We are finally achieving some plan for the coming months. I guess there is a lot of shuffling going on in this division of the company, and it has taken a little while to put the puzzle together. But Cori's official, tentative, if everything goes right, starting date has been set for the second week of December. With the simple declaration of this date the wheels have been set in motion and we have been able to make our holiday plans. These plans include spending both holidays right here in Michigan.

We've asked some MBA friends to make the trip allllll the way upstate to spend Thanksgiving with us, and they agreed! We are so excited to have them stay with us, and I am very excited to work with Stacy in planning our feast.

Then, we asked my family to make the trip alllll the way across the country to spend Christmas with us, and they agreed! I'm so grateful, and very excited for this as well.

In the meantime, we'll be putting this house up for sale, finding a new house in IL, and navigating all the relocation waters. Though Cori will start his new position before the Christmas holiday, we won't move until after it. Cori has begun his work transition. He has been busy getting projects and changes completed. This is the organizational announcement the site leader sent out:


It is with mixed emotions that I announce that Cori has accepted a new position in Honeywell. While I am disappointed to see Cori leave our organization in Boyne City I am also pleased that he has this new and well deserved career opportunity.

Cori’s new role will be as the HR Manager for the NWIL sites located in Freeport , Illinois . An exact start date has not been determined but he is expected to begin sometime in early December. We are aggressively working to find a backfill for Cori in Boyne City and hope to complete that transition before he must leave.

I would also like to take this opportunity to thank Cori for the numerous contributions he has made to the Boyne City site and our employees. Cori quickly jumped in the mix and became engaged in our business. His candor, fresh ideas and can do attitude was a clearly a positive influence on our site.

Please join me in thanking Cori and wishing him well in his new assignment!

It is starting to feel more real. There is just so much more to do this time around. When we moved from CA we had just 1 kid (although it was almost 2), a fraction of the stuff- or so it seems to me now, and an apartment manager to notify. And then, poof, we were here. Though it is nice having the time to plan now, I'm seeing the emotional benefits of the rip-the-band-aid-off experience of last Fall. It is hard tell my heart to get excited about going while at the same time telling it to stay entrenched in the present.

In other news, the kids and I made choco chip cookies today. It is a good thing I have some self control. I could have eaten Grant in two seconds. With a glass of milk.


11.09.2008

Blessings

Scrumptious boy

Chicken soup and the BRAT diet that have provided singularly stay-put sustenance. The kids caught a yucky g.i. bug that has been going around. This made for a surplus of laundry and carpet cleanings. But throughout the week, I could count on these food choices to stay down/in (for the most part). For the record, scraping banana throw up out of the floor was easily the grossest thing I've ever, ever had to do. The kids seem to be doing better today. A great blessing. And I adored giving the kids lots of mommy love this week. Both Grace and Grant prefer their daddy to me, hands down. This doesn't stop me from smooching on them all day long while dad is at work. Usually my affections are met with an "Aw, gee ma" kind of reaction. Yes, even from Grant. But while they were down and out this week, not only were my affections met favorably, they were requested.

Productivity Somehow, I managed a couple of those magical days where kids nap on time, and the phone doesn't ring off the hook, and no major crises arise elsewhere in life. I had a sizable list of things to do around the house and got most of it done. I was especially motivated after my relaxing Wednesday night and Thursday totally rocked. Cori and I finished up with our touch up painting yesterday. I feel much more calm about putting the house on the market now. Not that we know when that is going to happen yet. But it is coming soon, I'm sure. Now I feel ready(ish).

My right to vote What a crazy election. I've never been less impressed. But regardless of my opinions of the candidates and my disgust with the pundits I was immeasurably grateful to cast my ballot.

11.06.2008

randomnity

Grace and I winterized our flower beds today. I tucked the beloved hydrangea bushes into blankets of burlap. It made me sad to cut all the gladiolas. The flowers were long gone. But the beds look barren without the foliage. All this for flowers that we won't see next summer. It still made me really happy to do the work. Caring for things brings such a good feeling. Tonight, Cori and I had a little dinner party. Rodnie stayed with the kids. Grant has been a bit sick this week and I was happy to get home to him. I held him until he was asleep, and then snuggled in bed with Gracie until she was asleep. It just feels good to tuck things in and to make them feel safe, whether its kids or bushes.

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Michael Crichton died this week. I haven't read one of his books or watched ER in years. But there was a time that I was an avid fan of both. My first Crichton read was Jurassic Park when I was in the eighth grade. Every summer through High school I pounded through his books. I loved them. My senior year, ER was just about the only TV show I watched. 10PM Thursday nights. It was a short but intense relationship as I watched pretty much no TV in college. Crichton was in his mid sixties. He died of cancer and is survived by his 5th wife and the sole child he had by her. I was reading in an article about how he finally got to the point where he would complete and present a novel and its screenplay simultaneously. Such confidence. He knew he was that good. He would walk away from any producer who wanted to fiddle with his characters or sequences. He was 6'9" and spent his youth feeling isolated because of his height. He spent his adulthood feeling isolated because of his intellect. He had a medical degree, and reportedly, even his medical studies read like thrillers. Sometimes I wonder how it would be if I were so very good at something. Reading about the lives of those who are in a league of their own makes me happy to be plain ol' ordinary me. With leagues of lovely people close by.

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Wednesday nights, Cori has YMs and then a presidency meeting. He isn't home until sometime between 10 and 11. Though I'd rather spend time with him, I love having the evening completely to myself. I have had a lot of projects to work on this week. Getting things done during the day isn't always a realistic plan. Babies get sick. Little girls need to play. When the sun is out, parks must be visited. This was how all my days had been come Wednesday night. Consequently I had a rather aggressive schedule for the evening planned.

Planned Itinerary:
  • get kids in bed
  • finish visiting teaching calls
  • complete scraping of caulk from kids bathroom and the master bathroom
  • deep clean both bathrooms
  • if enough time- recaulk
  • get ready for bed etc.

What actually happened:

  • got kids in bed
  • finished visiting teaching calls
  • played piano
  • popped popcorn
  • flipped through holiday catalogues while toggling between Top Design and the Food Network
  • got ready for bed after Cori came home etc.

My bathroom project remains half done. I worked on it this morning, then decided to shift gears and get my outside work done as there is bad weather coming. I should be able to finish it all up tomorrow. Maybe.

11.05.2008

11.04.2008

What I've been reading

This was yet another one of those books that I should have read at least three times by now. But somehow I managed to make it through a high school career of honors and AP English classes, and a college degree in Humanities with an emphasis in literature with out ever picking it up. I really enjoyed it. It is simply told-- through the eyes of a child. And yet it hits on some fairly complicated human issues; equality, race, friendship, growing up, pride, education, parenting, familial ties. Scout was so familiar to me. Though I didn't have a wardrobe of overalls, her precocious thought processes were like a page out of my childhood. I also think that Atticus Finch is one of the most commendable parents in the world of fiction. He realized the challenges his kids would be facing and used every interaction with them to teach them and prepare them to do the right thing.

I need to see the movie. I can't imagine any child recreating Scout the way she is in my mind. The 1962 film won 3 Oscars. Gregory Peck is supposed to be pretty good. I'll let you know how I like it when I ever get around to seeing it!





Geraldine Brooks is an author my sister stumbled upon in an airport bookstore. She sent me People of the Book, and Year of Wonders when she was through and I read them back to back. People of the Book is a kind of historical mystery. The main character is a book binder who specializes in restoring ancient texts. She is approached to work on the Sarajevo Haggadah (a rare Jewish codex used at passover dinner) and in the process of rebinding it discovers some interesting artifacts; a dyed hair, a butterfly wing, and a stain of blood, wine, and salt water. She has an adventurous journey finding more clues and in the meantime, Brooks takes us back in time and tells us the story of the book. I've always liked the idea of books having stories of their own. I looking through my library books to find little notes written in the margins, or little stains on the pages. It was interesting to imagine where else the book had been and how it had effected other readers.

Brooks' research is boggling. The haggadah's history spans continents and centuries. Each episode and character involved has its own voice and pace. This was really impressive to me. It was like reading 4 or 5 different books. Warning: the chapter that takes place in Victorian Vienna is quite ... Victorian. It is verbose. Some of the language is strong. And there is sexual promiscuity. I skimmed a bit. But the rest of the novel is pretty safe. The last bit of the book is reminiscent to me of reading The DaVinci Code. There is deception, a race to save the artifact, and a twist. I loved it.



Year of Wonders fell short of my expectations. It is incredibly well researched, and therefore interesting. But it seemed a little -The Scarlett Letter-meets The Crucible-meets Lifetime original movie- to me. It is based on the true story of an English village that quarantined itself once the plague hit. I appreciated that Brooks was not gory. I was left with no doubt of the suffering and the physical details of plague contraction without sensational and grotesque description. I was also surprised by how Brooks introduces the novel. Within the first two chapters or so, she discloses who of the main characters will die before the reader has even been properly introduced to them. The reader is then made to care about these characters, all the while being aware of their immanent demise. It was a bit like what it might have been for the people of that village; living, loving and serving each other when anyone of them could be gone the next day.

Brooks approaches some good thinking questions through her characters. Much is made through out the novel of enduring God's tests. At one point, Anna, the protagonist, stumbles over a small rock. Did God put that rock in her path? If she had been mortally wounded by the fall, she would be inclined to say yes. Where is the line that decides His involvement in the evil that besets her? Was He hand picking those who were being taken by the plague? Or did He have nothing to do with it?

Brooks lost me in the last few chapters. It isn't a very long book, and the pace up to that point is pretty moderate. Then in the last 30 pages or so, the main surviving characters seem to change from day to night in a matter of pages. And the conclusion of the novel seemed a little out of left field to me. So, again, I found it interesting, but a bit disappointing at the end.


READ THIS BOOK! It is completely fascinating and important. Wild Swans is the true story of three generations of Chinese women. The biography spans pre-WWI era and foot binding and concubines through the rise of Communism and utilitarian lifestyles and the Cultural Revolution. Chang expects a lot of her reader, and I'll be the first to admit that I had to look up a few words (and English is her second language) and historical events.

There is too much for me to even try to summarize. But I think it is a very honest look at the good and the bad of Chinese history and government. Though parts of it were a little complicated to follow, I struggled to put it down.

It probably helps that I was reading it during the Olympics. It hard to imagine how millions of people could live under such control. It was captivating to see a bigger picture of what got the country where it is, and why it has survived.

Again, even if you plan to never read another book, read this one! Hands down, it was my favorite read of the year.

11.03.2008

Thoughts for tomorrow

Some principles that have influenced my political thinking.





A government big enough to give you everything you want is strong enough to take everything you have.

Thomas Jefferson


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Our constitution was made only for a moral and religious people. It is wholly inadequate to the government of any other.

John Adams


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We base all our experiments on the capacity of mankind for self-government.

James Madison


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Government is not reason; it is not eloquence. It is force. And force, like fire, is a dangerous servant and a fearful master.

George Washington


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The way to have safe government is not to trust it all to the one, but to divide it among the many, distributing to everyone exactly the functions in which he is competent....To let the National Government be entrusted with the defense of the nation, and it's foreign and federal relations..... The State Governments with the Civil Rights, Laws, Police and administration of what concerns the State generally. The Counties with the local concerns, and each ward direct the interests within itself. It is by dividing and subdividing these Republics from the great national one down through all it's subordinations until it ends in the administration of everyman's farm by himself, by placing under everyone what his own eye may superintend, that all will be done for the best.

Thomas Jefferson


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We, the people are the rightful masters of both Congress and the courts, not to overthrow the Constitution, but to overthrow men who pervert the Constitution.

Abraham Lincoln


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Therefore, choose you by the voice of this people, judges, that ye may be judged according to the laws which have been given you by our fathers, which are correct, and which were given them by the hand of the Lord.

Now it is not common that the voice of the people desireth anything contrary to that which is right; but it is common for the lesser part of the people to desire that which is not right; therefore this shall ye observe and make it your law—to do your business by the voice of the people.

Mosiah 29:25-26
I recommend reading the whole chapter

11.02.2008

Blessings

Me and Grant, one year ago

District Conference It ends up costing us the whole weekend and is always worth the sacrifice. Our district building (stake center) is nearly an hour and a half away. And with trainings throughout the day on Saturday and then the Sunday morning session, we have found it worth our while to get a hotel. (Need I mention that these weekends mark my biannual trips to Target?) I live for the Saturday night session. Babysitters. They provide babysitters and I get to enjoy distraction free instruction for two whole hours. The area authority we had with us is a particularly gifted scriptorian. I was so uplifted. The Lord lives and loves us. The world can fall apart as it may. But nothing can deter our Father's plan and great love for His children.

Like a phoenix from its ashes, our old laptop has been resurrected and restored to us. Cori's step-dad, Ray, is super skilled and installed a new and meaty hard drive. It has been a sweet reunion.

Moving Limbo We still don't know anything specific about our forthcoming move. This is a bit unnerving to a part of me. But I'm not in any hurry to leave this time. I've been trying to take advantage of the padding of time. There are a few things to do around here, and I'm making plans for the next place. Oh yeah, and my calling. I'm very grateful to still have some time for that too.

11.01.2008

trick or treat


Another first for Grace. She had never been to so much as a trunk or treat in her whole 3 years of living. To kick off our spooky soiree with our friends, the P* crew, we took Grace and Gianna (the P*'s 2 1/2 year old) around the block. They were two princesses/fairy dancers in a pod and were very good about saying "trick or treat" and "thank you" very loudly. Then it was back to the P* house for warm chili and lots of yummy munchies. We thought it was pretty funny that Cori and I dressed as escaped convicts and Dario and Kelly dressed as Dog the bounty hunter and wife. Also at our little party was another co-worker family from Honeywell. Cori, Dario and Charlie all work at the Boyne City site. Charlie and his wife have two boys, one of whom is just nine little weeks old. He was completely irresistible. I couldn't decide if it was a trick or a treat to leave so baby hungry.