2.28.2010

Blessings



The week came and went in a hurry. Vacation hangover is always a bit of a challenge. Poor Grant had his schedule upside down for a while, but I think we've got that managed again. The little dude would fall irreparably asleep anytime we got in the car. Then he would go to bed late making him more tired the next day... I think we are all caught up and I'm looking forward to Monday. This week I am grateful for:
  • The Olympics and that they are ending tonight. We LOVE watching- can't get enough, but it will be nice/necessary to reclaim our evenings starting tomorrow night. Not to mention the fact that between the competition, the personal stories, and the commercials I am always on the verge of tears. I need a break.
  • My calling in Sunday School. I love teaching the High School kids. And I'm especially grateful for the direction and propulsion lesson preparation gives my scripture study through the week. I've never been much of an Old Testament buff. I've been conversant with the major stories and now I feel like there is a greater foundation of context and understanding growing as I study this year. The kids in my class ask thoughtful questions, though sometimes tangental. But I find that as I prayerfully prepare, I learn so much and usually have answers. We always have good discussion.
  • The deep clean of our house that has begun. Though I don't like doing it, I'm glad it is getting underway. Cori cleaned out the garage yesterday, and I went through multiple boxes of Mr. Clean Magic Erasers scrubbing cabinets, kick plates, trim work, and doors on the main floor. The list is long, but we're off the starting line.
  • Cori and his endless patience and helpfulness where I am concerned.

2.27.2010

2.25.2010

birthdays

October 2005


September 2007

And there is another birthday on the way. #3 is due the end of August. We are so excited and very, very grateful to our Heavenly Father and everyone who has lifted us with their prayers and kind thoughts over the last 16 months. We've seen the little lovely via sonogram and have heard the heart beat twice. Everything looks wonderfully normal. We are just starting into the second trimester, I'm at 13 weeks. Though we realize that anything could happen still, statistics are now on our side and we are out of my normal miscarriage danger zone. It has been a rough couple of months. Cori deserves Olympic gold for the weight he has pulled around here (without complaint). He is so very good to us. I'm starting to feel better. And we thank Heaven every chance we get. (And I could munch on jalepeno peppers all day long.)

We took this picture of Grace a couple of nights ago. She had stuffed a bunch of her animals into her pjs when she changed clothes. When I asked her about it again today, she told me she was carrying her babies in her tummy. We are all a little excited. :)

2.24.2010

back home


We had a few days back at mom and dad's house. One afternoon we took a flight in Papa Jeff's plane, the Musketeer. It was a bumpy ride, but the kids didn't seem to mind at all. Both of them were asleep by the time we landed. We also got to check out a one-of-a-kind Sikorsky plane that shares a hanger with the Musketeer. It has toured the African continent and is all teak and wicker on the inside. 1930's glam anyone? So cool. The flight was great. We love seeing the valley and the mountains from the sky.

The rest of our stay was full of the usual wonderful. Grace and Thea's dog, Toby, were inseparable. Poor Toby was pretty dead tired all weekend long. The kids helped with the horses. Grant got a ride in Papa Jeff's new front loader. We got to spend some time with my Grandma Bettie. Cori and I took a cruise in my mom's mustang she is having restored. We also got to take a day-long date. We went to the Temple in the morning (the Temple where we were married) and then that night we went out to dinner and saw Avatar- in 3D. (As an aside about that movie- I can't disagree that the story line is Fern Gully meets Dances with Wolves. Nor can I argue that is isn't full of every cliche in the book. But, it was SO GREAT.)

Thanks again, Mom and Dad AND Grandma and Sara for a perfect trip. We were so sad to come home!

2.23.2010

at the lake: while we weren't skiing...

Recuperation. While we were not skiing, we spent our time with the Olympics on the TV, a flame glowing in the fireplace, comfy clothes on, and lots to talk about. The kids got to go with Grammie to visit her workout friends and Papa Jeff's office. She kept them very entertained with games and crafts. Their Aunt Sara kept things lively as well. I have video, though sadly no pictures, of Sara, Grace and Grant laughing hysterically on one of the beds watching cartoons. Many stories were read. Many toy cars and My Little Ponies were played with. It was just so nice to be together with nothing else to do but play and relax (Well, Cori still had to do a little work... and probably dad too... poor guys).

We did venture down to the 'heated' pool. It was a brief visit. The hot tubs were packed with people and beer (not that the kids could have really played in the hot tubs anyway)- so we stuck to the pool and it was chilly. The master suite in the condo has a big jetted tub. Fortunately, the kids were satiated by a bathing-suited adventure in the bathroom instead.

It was a dream come true for me to spend a week sans food planning and prep. Mom, Dad, and Sara cooked for us, and we went out to our favorite restaurants. What a break. Part way though the week we checked out and headed back down to the valley.

Oh, and my favorite ongoing Olympic-themed conversation from the kids that evolved over our trip culminated in this exchange last night:
Grace: That looks really dangerous.
Grant: That looks FUN! I want to do that.
Grace: Grant. It is safe for adults but not for kids like us.
Grant: No! Dats FUN!
Grace: Grant. Say it with me. Safe for adults but not for kids.
Grant: (quietly) no. dats fun.

2.22.2010

at the lake: ski days

Mom and dad's condo is right on the Heavenly gondola. This picture was taken from the living room. With such proximity it was really easy to get a lot of skiing in. We pretty much wore ourselves out, but it was so much fun.

The big kids went out three times- two times with Sara. The days were sunny and relatively warm. This didn't make for the most favorable snow but we were in heaven! Heavenly has added some terrain since we were there last. Dad gave us the grand guided tour of the mountain. We even visited some of the diamond studded haunts of our high school days. I had forgotten how amazing the views are from the runs on that mountain. And there is nothing like high sierra air to lift the spirits.




We took the kids up for one afternoon. Grace was interested in one thing only: pointing her tips down hill. (Maybe it is all the Olympics we've been watching...) By the end of the afternoon she agreed to work on turning. We had a few wipe outs. But she got back up and went again every time. Grant had a pretty good time too. He even tried going a few feet solo. He fell asleep on the way down the gondola. And then stayed zonkered out while we were taking off his equipment in the rental shop- hence the picture of him sleeping on the bench. Poor little guy. But it we were glad to get all our fun in- it will have to tide us over until next winter!



2.21.2010

Blessings


Well, we're home again and back to regular life tomorrow. We had such a wonderful trip. I've been sorting and collaging pictures all afternoon. I am so grateful for:
  • my lovely parents- and not just because they spent the last week spoiling us all like crazy. We love, LOVE being with these wonderful people.
  • the ability to travel- though it still takes us about 12 hours to get to northern Nevada, I am so grateful for time and means to get there once in a while.
  • Cori's resourcefulness- a while ago, Cori called to cancel our Direct TV subscription. To make a long story short, they ended up cutting us an awesome deal and we have been able to keep HD service, Cori's sports package and most of our channels for a deep discount. This has enabled us to watch Olympic coverage on multiple stations- we are slightly obsessed and now inexplicably interested in curling.
  • the peace of the Gospel- There are a few rather significant things about our family life that get thrown up in the air every couple of years when it is time for Cori to advance his career (relocation, selling houses, buying houses, doctors, schools, etc...). The economy has definitely got us thinking ahead of the curve this time and we have a lot of big decisions to make. It would be so stressful except for our faith in our Heavenly Father's presence and plan for us. Though the biggest pieces of the puzzle are yet non-existent, we feel we have some direction and have been blessed with over all peace to help us be patient.

2.13.2010

not that i've been blogging much anyway...


...but I thought I'd let you know that I really won't be blogging next week because we are going to be at Lake Tahoe with my parents. They have a vacation condo there- and we love going. My sister, Sara, is yet again sacrificing precious vacation time from law school to be with us. She flew into Tahoe last night and will be there a few days. (My kid sister Thea almost worked it out to come too- but we understand, Tot. It is like you are in college or something now and can't travel willy nilly whenever you like. We'll miss you!) As evidenced by the pictures above, we are going to be a good 20* to 25* warmer all week. What a treat.

Things I'm looking forward to:
  • relaxing
  • skiing
  • not driving Grace to and from school everyday
  • hanging out with my dad and my husband who have been working like animals for weeks so as to be able to take some time away from work
  • skiing
  • relaxing
  • the heated pool
  • taking Grant skiing for the first time- he asks me everyday about it
  • watching the Olympics every possible moment
  • relaxing
  • being with my mom
  • hanging out with my Grandma Bettie
  • seeing friends in the CVII ward on Sunday
  • skiing
  • giving Cori lots of extra kisses on Valentine's day
  • being around snow and being able to play in it without freezing solid after only 15 minutes
  • and maybe relaxing a little bit

Full report upon our return! Hope you have a great 3-day weekend.

2.10.2010

2.08.2010

Grant Attack


Things one might hear Grant say these days:
  • with sword in hand "Bwast you Petuw Pan!"- care to guess what the favorite movie is around here these days?
  • "ITS MY MONEY, AND I NEED IT NOW!" - the kids saw one J.G. Wentworth commercial and thought it was the funniest thing ever.
  • "Pwess the wed button, mom. Its fun." His way of asking me to close what I'm doing on the computer.
  • "I want my bainties." He means, blankies. Yes, there are two now. And he asks for them all the time.

Other than wrapping himself in his blankies, Grants passes his time playing with cars, trucks and sports equipment. We spend a lot of time everyday playing catch, hitting balloons with the sword, kicking the fuzzy soccer ball back and forth, and shooting baskets with his nerf basketball stuffs.


With many thanks to his big sister, Grant loves to sing his ABC's. He identifies 8-10 colors (most of the time) and is starting to do well with identifying and drawing shapes. He will sit and read with us, but not for very long. He would rather be jumping off the couch or throwing something. He has, however, taken a recent interest in coloring. Grace is always in the middle of a project and Grant spends more and more time by her side when she has the art stuff out. His favorite activity is coloring with markers, of course. So I get to spend a lot of time supervising. Oh, and he actually used his potty chair. Once. Maybe... maybe... (please!?)


Like his sister at about this age, Grant has lost interest in his nap. I've been a little smarter about it this time around and haven't fought it. There are afternoons that he really needs to sleep. Unlike his sister who would fight it until she would fall asleep in the middle of playing, Grant will get a pillow and his blankies (which are inevitably near by). I try to keep his naps short- when he takes them- as he won't go to bed until very late that night. He is not cheerful about being woken up early. On the days that he does not take a nap, he is ready for bed and asleep 7:30-8:00 and will sleep about 12 hours. So lovely.


He is still a picky eater when it comes to food that is not junk. The kid has a really sensitive gag reflex which makes it very hard to get him to try new things without throwing up everything we've managed to get down his tummy in the first place. We totally bribe him with treats to get the good bites down. And thank goodness for gummy vitamins, right?


Oh, I am such a sucker for this little guy. I have to remind myself not to fold when he smiles at me. But he is quick to say sorry and wants to please. He is becoming more and more helpful- much to the delight of his sister who sometimes treats him like her personal servant. But for the most part, we think it must be good to be Grant these days.

2.05.2010

Gracidotes

A little look at our Gracibug who is 4 going on 14 these days.

Over our Christmas trip, Grace was completely enamored of her girl cousins. They all have names that end in an 'ee' sound. This was dandy by Grace as she loves to be called Gracie. Somewhere in our conversations about this, it was pointed out to Grace that if she wanted her name to read 'Gracie' she would need to spell it with an 'i'. The trend has stuck. She writes her name on everything and always includes the 'i'.

In other academic news, she continues to push herself. I really cannot take any credit for her progress- these days especially. She counts to 100 for fun. Multiple times a day. She treats addition like a divine revelation. "Mom! Did you know that 2 + 3 is 5 ?! That is all the fingers on this hand!! Isn't that great?" I'm also noticing that she has a very quick memory. As we have worked on her reading, my biggest problem is that she memorizes the early reader books within 2-3 readings. So by the second day with a new book, she isn't really trying to read, she is just reciting. I need to get to the library more often.

But her quick little brain comes in handy. Point in case: Just this last Sunday, I was rushing down the stairs with about 15 minutes to go before we needed to leave for church when I remembered that Grace had been assigned the talk for sharing time. HOW DID I FORGET THIS? Worst mom ever award for me, please. I got on sugardoodle and hastily printed out 7-8 pictures and pasted them to card stock cards. Grace was unfazed by my craziness. As we combed her hair she practiced what she would say. Then, just before church began, she went over it a couple of times with Cori. I've been subbing for the primary pianist and was in sharing time that day. When it was time for her to go up for her talk, I asked her if she wanted me to help her. It had been nearly 3 hours since our meager rehearsal. She shooed me away and said she wanted to do it by herself. She very calmly stood in front of our little primary and recited, word for word, what we had practiced. I'm so grateful this girl has come into the world equipped to survive her mother.


The other day Gracie told me that she wants to be an astronaut. Her reason for this lofty aspiration is that she thinks it would be really, really fun to float in space. I told her that she could be a great astronaut. But that it would take a lot of work. She would have to always work really hard in school, and she would have to work really hard on her exercises. This was nothing but perfect news to Grace as she prizes herself as a good student and exerciser. (oh, it makes me laugh) She does love 'exercising' though. A couple of saturdays ago, Cori was working on the basement project and I went down to run on the treadmill. Gracie sat beside me for half an hour waiting for her turn to run. She loves running (in little 1-2 minute increments) on the treadmill, mostly, I think, for the thrill of shouting, "Faster! Faster!" and pushing the buttons. But by the time she was bored of it she had nearly run a whole mile. She will also drop and give you five anytime you ask.

All of Gracie's artwork for so long had been very free formed. She wasn't interested in drawing representations of things, nor could she be bothered with lines in coloring books. I didn't worry about it and never discouraged the colorfields she loved so well. Like so many things with Grace, she is capable, but will only do something once she has decided that she wants to do it. Sure enough, between school projects and coloring with her cousins over Christmas, there has been a shift in the kinds of art Grace is cranking out these days. She still produces several pictures daily, both from coloring books and plain paper. And now she is always drawing specific objects and people and works very hard to stay in the lines.


Nearly everyday when we come home from school, Grace grabs her umbrella from the mud room and runs outside to make this little snowy cabana. She says it is for any baby animals who might need to get out of the sun. When I remind her that it is very chilly outside and that the animals might like to stay in the sun to warm up, she reminds me that her Ariel umbrella is super great and who wouldn't want to relax beneath it?


Swimming lessons are going a lot better. We still have occasional tears when new things are introduced. But Miss Jenna, pictured above, has been our saving grace. Gracie loves her and does what she asks. By the middle of the lesson, Grace will volunteer to swim with Mr. Brandon and Mr. Michael too. She is getting better about doing her front and back floats and loves dunking her head under. She is still against kick boards and all other floating devices that are not noodles. For a while I was wondering if I should pull her out and try lessons again later. But I'm glad we have stuck with it. I think it has been a very new and good experience for Grace to be outside her comfort zone. Not to mention my strong feelings that all kids should get swimming lessons. It isn't like learning an instrument or another recreational sport- it is survival! Poor Grant asks me every week to put on his swimming suit so he can have lessons too. I wanted to sign him up, but they told me he was too young. :( Next year.


One of my greatest fortunes with this little big girl is that she is a good sister to Grant. Sure, they have their little tiffs throughout the day. But she is very inclusive and considerate. They have great adventures together. They make great messes together. They get to spend a lot of time cleaning up together too. She is sure to give him kisses and loves before she gets out of the car for school. She is also sure to tell me every little thing he is up to.