12.31.2008

Update

It has been a very long time... Please forgive the following format, but I want to get to it so that I can eventually get back to normal blogging. So in no particular order, since I last wrote at the beginning of December, we have:

Bought a new house. After much to do over a certain power of attorney document, we successfully closed on our house in Illinois. We are now the proud owners of two mortgages. Just for a little while though. Our Petoskey house has been on the market with some activity. If we don't sell within a couple of months, Cori's company will buy it. In the meantime, we get the special treat of paying the two mortgages, as well as two sets of winter month utilities. I can't complain. We are very fortunate to have the buy out on the horizon.


Spent a lovely Christmas with my family. My sisters, parents, and grandmother all came out to spend the holiday with us. The only one missing was my brother. And we missed him. We stayed at a vacation home on Walloon Lake. It snowed every single day which made for an extremely white Christmas morning. It was special spending the week together. I'll post pictures and more details soon.

Faced another miscarriage. The pregnancy was a welcomed surprise. That I miscarried should not have been a surprise as this is not our first, or our second miscarriage. But I had been remarkably sick for some time before the news came, and I was further along than I had been with the others. So it came as a bit of a shock. I waited nearly two weeks before having the D&C. That was a harder decision to make than I thought it would be. We went in the Monday before Christmas. Grace and Grant had lots of family around, and Cori was able to spend the day with me. I'm finally feeling the dissipation of morning sickness and more like myself everyday. The one great blessing to come from this was that during a time when there was a crazy amount of things to be done, I was forced to slow down and prioritize. I got to enjoy my kids in a way that would not have happened otherwise.


Packed up, moved across Lake Michigan, and unpacked (well, we're getting there). The Monday before Christmas our house was boxed up. Everything got loaded onto the truck the next day. We kissed our family good bye on Saturday. We said good bye to our Church family on Sunday and then made our way to our new hometown. The next day we met the movers and began getting settled in. Sara graciously offered to spend her whole break from law school with us so she could help. It has been amazing. With her and Cori around, I am light years ahead of where I usually am at this stage of the game. We actually have the main floor completely unpacked, and there are only four boxes left upstairs. Of course there is a mountain of storage to organize in the basement...


Our access to the internet is a bit limited for the next week or so, but I will post more as I can. We are loving our new home, and feel we have been very, very blessed. I'm always amazed at how things work out. It is a good thing I'm not in charge!

15 comments:

Susy said...

Nice to see you back! Tell Sara I said hello! Your pictures of the kids are beautiful. You and Cori have beautiful babes! Sorry to hear about your loss, never easy!

Have a great New Years and give all your loved ones a kiss from this foreign family friend! :)

Darcy said...

So sorry to hear about your loss. I'm glad you were able to be near family at this difficult time.

I am looking forward to pictures of your new home.

Heather said...

Jesse~ so sorry to hear about your lose. I can't imagine what that must feel like. I am happy you had your wonderful family there, and that you have been able to slow down and take things easy, as that is hard to do during the holidays...and not to mention moving.
I look forward to seeing pics of the new house, and more pics of you adorable kids!
My thoughts are with You and Corie,
Happy New Year!

Camille said...

Jess... I had no idea... I'm so sorry. You are such a strong person. I just don't know how you do it. Please know I've missed hearing from you and reading about your fun adventures and I'm so glad that things are getting settled. Love you girl!

Anonymous said...

I'm glad to hear you guys are settled in and that you made it safe. It's good to hear that you are starting to feel more like yourself again...it's amazing how we forgot how hard those early weeks of pregnancy can be.

I can't wait to see pictures of your new home. We sure miss you guys already!!!

Donna said...

Jesse, so very sorry to hear of your loss. You and yours are always in our thoughts and prayers. No wonder you felt as if you were being pulled in a million directions.
We sorely miss you guys, and no it hasn't stopped snowing! We'll see the ground about mid summer! LOL!

Take care of yourselves.
love,
Donna

Stacie said...

SO good to hear from you. We've been thinking about you and wondering how you're doing. I really can't believe everything that has been going on for you guys, and I'm glad to hear you are surviving!

I'm so sorry to hear about the miscarriage. I'm glad you're starting to feel better. Hang in there.

I'm glad your Christmas was nice with your family.

Good luck with the rest of the move and settling in! You guys are amazing....

Marcy said...

Jesse, I'm so sorry about your miscarriage. Grace and Grant look so beautiful and your tone is so optimistic and hopeful as always. It's so nice to read a new post here. Take care in your new place. Love you!

Marcy

*natalie said...

Thanks for the update. I have missed your posts. So sorry about your loss...virtual hug.

Oh, and your pics of the kids are marvelous dear!

Jessica G said...

love you guys! Hope you are hanging in there. I'm glad things worked out with christmas and the house and things. I will try and call you this week so we can catch up! Hugs and kisses!

Heidi said...

Oh, Jesse, I'm so sorry. I wish I could give you a big hug.

I'll be praying for you and would love to call when things slow down.

The Giffs said...

You never cease to amaze me. Your faith in God and courage to move forward with whatever faces you is motivating. I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, and the miserable pain that accompanied it. Good luck getting settled in. I hope you like Illinois!

Jesse said...

Thank you all. We have felt your prayers and support. I really appreciate it.

Jess said...

I'm so sorry to hear about your sad news. And I'm happy to hear that the move went so smoothly. Take care.

Joanne said...

I've just been enjoying getting caught up on your blog, but I kind of did it in reverse order, and almost missed this post - I was sorry to hear about the miscarriage.

I love all of your pictures and posts - you have such beautiful children and I love reading about your life.